Tuesday, January 22, 2019

Why I Didn’t Block My Evil Ex

Some friends ask me why I don’t block my ex in my social media.
Because most of them did it after a break up.
The answer is simple, because it’s not necessary.
Why should I?
Not because I still have a feeling for him or I can’t move on.
But because I already did, move on.
Because blocking him is childish.
I will simply let him be.
Knowing my life and how free and happy I am.
Let him take a pick every time in awhile.
To checking up what’s happening without him.

So he can look what he just missed.
What he did wrong.

I will simply  let him be.

Because I’m sure I’m not the one who lost you.
To be exact I’m not the one who lost.

People said the best revenge is to be happy.
They lied.
It did not.
It’s too cliche .

Believe me it is not.
It doesn’t satisfy you from the thirst of hurting the person who’s hurt you.
Being happy isn’t your best revenge to anyone that did you wrong.
But it does the best gift that you can give to yourself.

You owe that to yourself.
To be happy.
To be at peace.

It wont be easy, for sure.
Because sometimes you have this anger that restrained on your chest.
That somehow waiting to be released.

It might just a little.
But it affects just the same.

You might struggle for awhile.
But you’ll get through it for sure.

So just hanging on and be happy.
Because you owe that to yourself.

So why should I block him when I’m not the one who lost him?

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